Dear MOTIVATION: I have gone on a few dates with someone I initially thought I’d like. However, I’m just not feeling any chemistry. I really don’t want to hurt their feelings, but I’m also not sure if I should give it another chance. On one hand, I’d hate to end things prematurely; on the other, I don’t want to waste anyone’s time. How do I know when it’s time to move on? Is it mean or callous to just end things now? — CONFLICTING FEELINGS IN NORTH CAROLINA

DEAR CONFLICTING FEELINGS: It is not mean to acknowledge a lack of chemistry. Trust your instincts and your heart’s true signals. It is important to be honest with both yourself and your date. While it’s courteous to communicate your feelings, extending dates without connection may lead to unnecessary anxiety, heartache, or mixed signals. You deserve a relationship in which both partners feel excitement, mutual attraction, and shared interests. A polite and honest conversation can help them understand your perspective. Remember, not every connection leads to forever romance, and that’s perfectly okay. Prioritize your happiness and kindness. I hope you find and feel your magical spark and a forever connection in a relationship one day soon.