Dear MOTIVATION: The ball has dropped, and the New Year is here. I can’t help but feel the growing distance between my boyfriend and me. The spark and activities are gone. We’ve both been so caught up in our routines that our intimacy has faded. I want to rekindle our emotional and physical connection to strengthen our bond this year. What steps can we take to spark and reignite our connection again? I believe it’s important for our happiness and relationship. Your advice would mean the world to me! — LONGING FOR CONNECTION IN FLORIDA

DEAR LONGING FOR CONNECTION: It’s good that you recognize the need to reconnect. Anytime is a great opportunity to reconnect, and the new year sets a perfect stage to rekindle your spark. Start by reconnecting and creating dedicated time for each other, free from distractions. Plan date nights or try new activities together to create shared experiences. Open communication is key—share your feelings and desires, and be open to actively listening to your partner. Small gestures, like leaving sweet notes, having a loving conversation for 10 minutes or more, giving a warm and welcoming hug, sharing a cuddling movie date night, or simply holding hands, can reignite intimacy. Remember, every step counts. With effort and love, you can strengthen your bond this year. Best wishes!