Civility & Respect
Strengthening Connections with Your Team
Dear MOTIVATION: I’m an overwhelmed manager struggling to connect with my team and earn their full respect. They seem emotionally
January 20, 2026
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Dear MOTIVATION: I am struggling to find the purpose of the holidays this year. After being furloughed for 43 days during the government shutdown, my holiday spirit feels dim. Financial worries stress my mind, and I’m questioning the meaning of the holidays. I want to reconnect with the joy and warmth of the holiday season and Christmas Day, but I just can’t connect or feel it. How can I regain my sense of purpose and enjoy the deeper meaning of this season, despite my current struggles? — SEEKING PURPOSE IN VIRGINIA
DEAR SEEKING PURPOSE: It’s understandable to feel disconnected during challenging times. The holiday season and Christmas Day are a season of hope, love, connection, and community, not just material joy. Consider engaging in acts of kindness, like volunteering or helping those in need, which can bring new joy and perspective. Focus on connections with loved ones, whether through shared meals, calls, or simple gatherings. Reflect on memories and traditions that bring warmth to your heart, allowing gratitude to push through and shine in the hard times.
Dear MOTIVATION: I am struggling to find the purpose of the holidays this year. After being furloughed for 43 days during the government shutdown, my holiday spirit feels dim. Financial worries stress my mind, and I’m questioning the meaning of the holidays. I want to reconnect with the joy and warmth of the holiday season and Christmas Day, but I just can’t connect or feel it. How can I regain my sense of purpose and enjoy the deeper meaning of this season, despite my current struggles? — SEEKING PURPOSE IN VIRGINIA
DEAR SEEKING PURPOSE: It’s understandable to feel disconnected during challenging times. The holiday season and Christmas Day are a season of hope, love, connection, and community, not just material joy. Consider engaging in acts of kindness, like volunteering or helping those in need, which can bring new joy and perspective. Focus on connections with loved ones, whether through shared meals, calls, or simple gatherings. Reflect on memories and traditions that bring warmth to your heart, allowing gratitude to push through and shine in the hard times.
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