Dear MOTIVATION: My son has developed a deep dislike for the sound of his voice, a feeling that began in middle school and grew stronger throughout high school. Now, in college, he expresses his annoyance and frustration about the sound of his voice more often. Is it possible for him to change his voice to something he feels more comfortable with? As a parent, I want to support him in understanding why he perceives his voice negatively and help him explore options for change. Do you have any suggestions on how I can best support him on this journey? – DEALING WITH TEEN FLAWS IN MIAMI-DADE COUNTY, FLORIDA

DEAR DEALING WITH TEEN FLAWS: It’s not uncommon for teenagers to struggle with their self-image, including their voices. When I speak nationwide to teen and youth groups, I encourage them by stating, Flaws make you real; embrace them. I also suggest that they celebrate their individuality; it’s what makes you Different, Unique, YOU.

Encourage your son to express his feelings openly, as this can be therapeutic. Voice modulation and improvement are indeed possible through lessons, either with a trained vocal coach or through self-led exercises. Additionally, exploring the reasons behind his feelings with a psychologist might provide insights and boost his self-esteem. If you find persistent discomfort, consider consulting a speech pathologist or an ear, nose, and throat doctor for further assessment and guidance. Your support is vital in helping him navigate this challenge.

Best wishes as you help your son find confidence and joy in his voice.