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Rethinking Thanksgiving Traditions Together
Dear MOTIVATION: My in-laws have always expected extravagant gifts for Thanksgiving, which causes anxiety and stresses me out. I believe
November 12, 2025
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Dear MOTIVATION: My in-laws have always expected extravagant gifts for Thanksgiving, which causes anxiety and stresses me out. I believe that this holiday should focus on gratitude and family togetherness rather than material possessions. How can I kindly set new expectations without hurting their feelings? I want to foster a more meaningful celebration that highlights appreciation and love. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! — GIFTS vs. GRATITUDE IN MARYLAND
DEAR GIFTS vs. GRATITUDE: Thanksgiving is a wonderful and warm opportunity to express what truly matters: love, family, togetherness, and gratitude. Begin by having an open and honest conversation with your in-laws. Share your vision for a simpler celebration centered on quality time and appreciation. You could suggest making a group activity, such as volunteering at a soup kitchen serving others early afternoon on Thanksgiving Day, or sharing what you’re thankful for before your family meal. Reinforcing that the essence of Thanksgiving lies in gratitude and togetherness may help them embrace your perspective. Change can be gradual; patience is key.
Dear MOTIVATION: My in-laws have always expected extravagant gifts for Thanksgiving, which causes anxiety and stresses me out. I believe that this holiday should focus on gratitude and family togetherness rather than material possessions. How can I kindly set new expectations without hurting their feelings? I want to foster a more meaningful celebration that highlights appreciation and love. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! — GIFTS vs. GRATITUDE IN MARYLAND
DEAR GIFTS vs. GRATITUDE: Thanksgiving is a wonderful and warm opportunity to express what truly matters: love, family, togetherness, and gratitude. Begin by having an open and honest conversation with your in-laws. Share your vision for a simpler celebration centered on quality time and appreciation. You could suggest making a group activity, such as volunteering at a soup kitchen serving others early afternoon on Thanksgiving Day, or sharing what you’re thankful for before your family meal. Reinforcing that the essence of Thanksgiving lies in gratitude and togetherness may help them embrace your perspective. Change can be gradual; patience is key.
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