Dear MOTIVATION: This is my first Valentine’s Day with my girlfriend, but I was laid off in November of last year. I’ve been job-hunting and haven’t landed a new job yet, which is making it tough to plan something special. I really want to show her how much she means to me without spending a lot. What unique and memorable ideas can I do to celebrate our love on this special day, despite my financial situation? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! — LOVE BEYOND LIMITS IN NEW JERSEY
DEAR LOVE BEYOND LIMITS: Do not worry—love is what truly counts! Create a romantic dinner at home with candlelight and homemade treats. Consider writing her a heartfelt letter or poem to express your feelings. A movie night at home with her favorite films and snacks can be cozy and intimate. If she has to work on Valentine’s Day, deliver flowers and a special gift to her at her job. You could also plan a fun scavenger hunt around your town with sweet notes at each spot. Lastly, surprise her with a day of activities you both love together. Whatever you do, do it from your heart, and let your creative ‘love spark’ shine through. Remember, it’s the thought that counts.


