Dear MOTIVATION: I desperately need your advice. My tone is always misread over text messages, causing constant arguments with loved ones. I want to improve my digital communication before I ruin my close relationships. Recently, I texted my sister, “That’s fine,” meaning I happily agreed, but she thought I was being passive-aggressive and blocked me. Then, I messaged my boyfriend, “We need to talk,” to plan dinner, but he panicked, thinking I was breaking up with him. How do I convey my true feelings when I text loved ones? — MISUNDERSTOOD IN PENNSYLVANIA

DEAR MISUNDERSTOOD: Digital communication lacks facial expressions and vocal inflections, making it incredibly easy for people to misinterpret short texts. To fix this frustrating behavior, start injecting intentional clarity into your daily text messages. Use friendly emojis like smiley faces to soften your words and signal your true positive intent. Instead of short or blunt phrases, expand your sentences to provide full context on what’s being communicated. Try saying, “That sounds great to me!” or “Let’s talk about our dinner plans tonight.” Taking an extra moment to expand and elaborate will prevent panic and keep your relationships peaceful, supportive, and loving.